How to give the perfect gift

Gift-giving is a huge part of our lives, especially during the festive period. It lets our loved ones know just how much we value them and helps strengthen relationships and bonds between us.

However, it turns out most of us aren’t very good at giving gifts. Roughly 10% are returned each year. This year it’s estimated around £3.2 bn-worth will be sent back and much of this will be destroyed. Many more gifts are kept by recipients but barely used, or they’re thrown away at home. In simple terms, a large proportion of gifts are not appreciated. Giving a good gift is harder than it seems but with the climate crisis deepening, improving our gift-giving skills has never been more important.

Fortunately, there are plenty of studies that can help us out. Many academics agree that the fundamental issue with gift-giving is that there’s a mismatch between the desires of the giver and the desires of the recipient. If you can iron this out, then your gifts will be much better.

According to the research, the giver generally tends to focus on the moment of exchange. What gives us the most pleasure in the gifting process is seeing someone’s reaction to our present. We love seeing their smile or surprise when opening our gift and we subconsciously tailor our choice to that moment.

However, most receivers generally focus on how valuable gifts are once they’re owned and don’t think their reaction during the exchange is very important. Most of us would rather a gift that will be useful or enjoyable in the long term. No one wants a gift that makes us feel bad when we eventually have to return it, re-gift it or worst of all: throw it away.

So the trick to giving good gifts? Find something that’s essential to the person’s life, something that will get plenty of use. If that item is simple, well-made and long-lasting, then it will be appreciated and enjoyed for many years to come.

As luck would have it… that’s just what Sunspel does best.